Let me first start off by saying I am Very much a southern bell and I DO demand to be treated like a HUMAN Being and a LADY! I have class, I have RESPECT towards you and everyone. I do know how to treat EVERY single person with KINDNESS, RESPECT and I HONER you by not Scamming or disrespecting you.
I have been in this industry for just about a year now. I have NOT seen or been thew half the stuff some of my fellow providers have. I do not clam to know it all, or ever will. However I have came to LISTEN and LEARN from what I have seen and heard. This is MY view on it all if you are a fellow provider and reading this please know I have respect for you and I am here to listen.
MR. HOBBY,
Please know we are providing YOU with a SERVICE. We are NOT here to be you lil' play toy or someone that you tell what is and is not going to happen.
When you contact a Provider PLEASE READ the AD BEFORE you contact the Provider. How she wants you to contact her is in the AD if she has a website GO to the website REVIEW, and READ the website. That will tell you ALL the info you need to know. If there is something that you would like to know and it is not provided in the website POLITELY ask her DO NOT be RUDE, DISRESPECTFUL, or to BLUNT about it. Most cases she still will not answer you It is for our/ her safety. Please respect that.
Know who you are going to call, KNOW what she provides NOT ALL providers provide the same service.
I can not tell you how horrible it sounds to hear "oh which one are you again?" that makes YOU look like a FOOL! and you will hear a dial tone.
KNOW her rate/ gift amount NOT all providers have the SAME requirements just as they DON'T provided the same service. Do not HAGGLE that's tacky. If her service is $300.00-$200.00 an hour which IS the NORMAL going rate some are higher because of what ever the reason that is HER CHOICE. If you are unable to gift that amount PLEASE DO NOT be nasty about it.You can ask her if she provides a "discounted or a % off. Its HER CHOICE if its done NOT a MUST. If you are looking for a shorter session and it is NOT listed in her ad or website POLITELY ask her if she offers a shorter stay (45/30min) if the answer is NO, DO NOT be rude and call her foolish names. DO NOT ask for 5, 10 or really even 15 min stays that's a waste of YOUR TIME and OUR TIME. Most of the time the answer is HELL NO, or again you hear the dial tone.
RESPECT her gift amount we do not have the luxury to leave our job like you do we LIVE our job/ career for the time being. It is a LIFE CHOICE however its to provide YOU with a service that YOU CHOICE to accept/participate in. If you can NOT afford to do it then DON'T do it. We are NOT forcing you to, so DO NOT make it OUR problem. SAVE your money if you are unable to get a discount or a shorter stay. Even then for the BEST EXPERIENCE save that money spend that extra time with her and get to know what SHE likes as well it will ONLY MAKE IT BETTER! Most providers truly enjoy what she does/provide to you, but when the INSULTS and the LOW-BALLING comes in to play she WILL get upset and she WILL be rude. Put yourself in our shoes or if your man enough you try it for a week or two and see how it truly is. LOL that's a joke. Really tho it is NOT as easy as it may seem.
The PROVIDER has the RIGHT to see whom ever SHE choice. She does NOT have to see you. You might be that hunk or you might think you have what we want but lets be real here she is not here to provide you with a service just because you think you are a "stud".
Also now days providers are doing some kind of screening. Name, Age, what KIND of occupation you may have,email address(if its new you can forget about it) and also names and numbers of other providers you have seen in the past. You might be thinking Why does she need to know who I have seen in the past? BIG BAD WOLF is why. Its one reason for the WHOLE screening process to see if you are who you say you are. (you know who we are/provide if you learn to do you RESEARCH) it's for OUR SAFETY. Yes we can tell who has been trying to ROB us and trying to do things we DO NOT WANT TO DO. Again it's for OUR SAFETY. NO we are not saving your info and in my (All) case (s) no it will not be used for blackmail that's Foolish and a waste of time. NOW if you try and HARM or ROB or anything in that Nature you better bet I will let my fellow providers know about you! That is the WHOLE reason of it all to KEEP US SAFE from SCUM BAGS that are MESSING everything up.
RESEARCH know who you are seeing I can not tell you COUNTLESS stories I have heard but GREAT hobbyists that have been scammed/robbed, beaten, and just in a bad spot all because they did not take the time to REVIEW who they were seeing. GOOGLE phone numbers yes we do change our numbers time to time but in most cases you will STILL be able to locate our PAST ads. SO look up the NUMBER NAME AND if possible Email address in the form you saw it at and also in google that will tell you if she is a well known PROVIDER or has at least a Consistent in the ad posts and PICTURES are of the SAME girl. MAKE SURE INFO are the SAME ACROSS ALL ADS (unless changed number but all others should/will be the same) Also look for TATTOOS or body marks and see if it matches. LOL I see sooooo many ads of girls stealing other girls pictures and I have NEVER met these girls and I know they are NOT the one that is in the PICTURES and it is sooo obvious! Most of you are not thinking with the right head . LEARN to do so. It will SAVE your Ass in so many ways. DO not go digging for personal info on her thats disrespect. Would you like it if your daughter was doing this and some FOOL went dug her info and posted it up NO! So do not do it to her! There is NO reason why you need to know more info about her than what is required in her to providing you. All the info is in her reviews ads and website AND YOU GETTING TO KNOW HER again NOTHING PERSONAL she is not doing that to you you do NOT do it to her.
Guys you really need to OPEN YOUR EYES and SEE what you are getting in to BEFORE you do it. A provider worth seeing is the ones with Great reviews, VERIFIED and also if she has a website, now there are GREAT providers who do NOT have a website, do NOT rule them out just do your RESEARCH.
NO LOW-BALLING, or RUDENESS you will be dropped like the bomb in Hiroshima.
Also why the HELL would you want to go see a "provider" who has NO REVIEWS NOT VERIFIED OR ESTABLISHED and has different pictures up and nothing is the same also why the HELL would you want to see a "provider" who lets a Hobbyists do what ever the hell he wanted to her and for HELLA cheap? $80 FS CIM get a FUCKING LIFE YOU NASTY ASS PERV. You can go march yourself to the corner and get that STD you want. DO NOT be calling me or any other well known provider
This is what YOU are doing NOW! YOU ARE pushing AWAY all the well known SAFE CLEAN RESPECTABLE PROVIDERS with your LOW-BALLING STD written ALL over it rate offers and requests. Use your RIGHT head and BE SAFE!!!!!!!!!!
The PROVIDER will provide you with the BEST possible EXPERIENCE if you RESPECT her and what she does/ Provide.
Learn to be a good HOBBYIST just like how we had to learn how to PROVIDE YOU with a great EXPERIENCE.
Monica
